Today's Tip for Families

2026-05-16

Support Your Teen on the Road to Achieving Goals

Most families want to help their teens succeed. And teens usually want to be successful. But sometimes, adults and teens don’t have the same goals. Then, attempts to inspire can backfire.

When you want to motivate your teen, keep in mind that:

Your teen’s own goals and dreams may be different from the ones you have for your teen. Support your student's interests if you possibly can. Help your teen explore ways to build on them that may lead to satisfying outcomes. Trying to push teens in directions they don't want to go doesn't often work.
No one is an expert at everything. Applaud what your teen does well. In areas where your student doesn’t excel, be clear that you expect your teen's best effort. If your teen gives it, focus more on the effort and progress than on the result.
You don’t have to accept carelessness. Once you are aware of your teen’s strengths, it’s fine to say, “I think you rushed through that. I know you can do better.”
Comparisons to others don’t help. “Your sister always did well in science. Why can’t you?” is not going to inspire your teen to positive action. Avoid comparing your student to anyone else.

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Qualters Middle School

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