Today's Tip for Families

07-01-2025

Steer Your Teen Clear of Negative Peer Pressure

Surveys show that engagement in school decreases as students get older. It’s also the case that while most families would like their children to pursue higher education, fewer than half of high school graduates actually earn a college degree.

One factor is negative peer pressure, says one expert. Kids may think that studying isn't cool, and neither is being interested in sports and after-school activities. Many kids think they can slide by in school, yet still go to college or earn a high-income job right after high school.

Families and schools must work together to counteract negative peer pressure with "steer pressure." To steer your student toward post-secondary education:

• Stay involved with education. Your participation sends your teen a strong message that learning and schoolwork are important.
• Stress that "education pays off." Point out the positive results of hard work and good grades.
• Know your teen's friends. Be prepared to step in and do some steering when their behavior isn't appropriate.
• Help your teen find positive groups of friends. Encourage your student to participate in school activities such as band, community service, chess club, etc.
• Spend more time with your teen, and provide positive support and advice.
• Attend school meetings designed to help families understand and deal with adolescence and peer pressure.

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Allegany-Limestone Central Schools

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