03-28-2024
Try These Tips for Better Communication
"You never listen to me." That's a complaint heard from both teens and their families. Here are some tips that can make communication a little easier:
- Don't talk until your teen is ready to listen. Speak your student’s name before you start talking. Or place a gentle hand on your teen’s shoulder.
- Speak in a quiet voice. When it seems your teen isn't listening, your natural reaction may be to yell. (It never works.) Instead, try speaking in a whisper. Your teen may hang on every word.
- Use a courteous tone of voice. Talk to your teen as you would to your friend. Your teen will be more likely to use a courteous tone with you.
- Comment on what your teen does right. Offer praise for cooperating with you or other family members.
- Express your love. Teens are never too old to be told they are loved. Saying "I love you" is important. Writing it in a note is even better—it gives your teen something to hold on to.
- Give your undivided attention when your teen wants to talk with you. Try not to read, check your phone, watch TV, fall asleep or make yourself busy with other tasks.
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