Today's Tip for Families

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03-17-2025

To Lower Peer Pressure, Raise Self-Esteem

Teens with low self-esteem are vulnerable to negative peer pressure. They may do things they ordinarily wouldn't do just to feel liked.

To bolster your teen's self-image:

• Be positive. Offer praise when your teen does something well.
• Avoid comparing your teen to other people. Saying things like, "Your brother did so well in this class. Why can't you?" is more likely to discourage rather than motivate your student.
• Assign responsibilities. Expect your teen to complete homework, do chores, etc. Meeting these expectations helps your teen feel capable and reliable—and proud.
• Be encouraging. Support activities your student is interested in. These let your teen develop hobbies and strengths, make like-minded friends and build self-confidence.
• Promote independent thinking. If your teen is making a choice, you might say, "You've told me what your friends say, but what do you think?" Or, "What would you decide if everyone took a secret ballot and no one would ever see your vote?"
• Say "I love you" to your teen every day.

Brought to you by:

Buckingham Exceptional Student Center

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