Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

01-20-2022

There's nothing wrong with being shy. But teens who are extremely shy can have problems in school.

Students need help managing shyness if they:

Never speak up in class.
Develop physical symptoms (such as stomachaches) when they have to be around others.
Always avoid group projects.
Don't socialize with peers.
Resist taking on leadership roles.

If you're concerned about your student's shyness, here are some things you can do:

Ask your teen which situations provoke feelings of shyness. Then try role-playing those same situations together to build comfort and confidence.
Talk with the teachers. They may be able to help by allowing your teen to work in smaller groups or having your teen partner with outgoing students.
Consider having your student tutor other students. This can boost confidence and give your teen practice talking with others.
Consult a professional, especially if your teen suddenly goes from very outgoing to very shy. This can be a sign of a serious problem that needs your help right away.

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