Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

08-29-2023

Promote Civility and Eliminate Name-Calling

Children have called each other names for centuries. They put someone down in front of a crowd because they hear others do it, to look cool to onlookers, to feel better about themselves, or for reasons known only to themselves.

Whatever the reason, name-calling is wrong. And it's wrong to think that name-calling is just another part of growing up. These actions are linked to much harsher cruelties. And persistent name-calling and name-calling with an intent to hurt or isolate are forms of bullying.

In order to have a safe and productive learning environment, it's important to limit aggressive behavior. Families can help by talking about better ways to interact with others, and by establishing rules for interactions at home.

To promote civility:

Be a good role model. Don't call people names. Say you disapprove when you hear someone putting another down.
Don't accept "I was just joking" as an excuse. It's never a joke when someone is made to feel rejected or ridiculed.
Voice your disapproval and disappointment if your child has taunted someone. Have your child apologize to the victim and others who may have been affected.
Express your concern if your child has been taunted. Talk about why kids do this, and brainstorm ways of coping together.
Teach that name-calling hurts everyone. Doing it—or tolerating it—undercuts our integrity and humanity.
Foster empathy. Always encourage your child to think how it might feel to be in another's shoes.

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